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The few times the subject of law "dad" has come up, I try to put things in the best possible light without LYING to them. Instead of telling them "Well, your dad would rather run around like a teenager, partying and drinking law with his friends then to be your father", which is TRUE, I just explain that he has problems right now and he's not ABLE to be law their father. I'll slowly give them the whole story as they get older and they can decide what to do with it. But there was no way I'm going to build him up to be a great guy. Eventually, they are going to want to meet him. When that time comes, he is going to try and make ME out to be the bad guy ("I tried to see you and be a dad, but your mother wouldn't let me. She only wanted the money.") I'll be damned if I'm going to defend my self against someone that didn't even bother where the kids were concerned, but that doesn't mean I have the right to train my children to HATE him. ceara View Public Profile Send a private message to ceara Find all posts by ceara Add ceara to Your Buddy List #14 03-06-2006, 07:23 AM MidnightBreeze Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 11 Quote: Originally Posted by ceara I've never said a bad word about my ex husband to the kids and they don't even KNOW him.
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